A men’s group that fits — for GBT+ men and non-binary people

Show up as you are.

“Vulnerability is the last thing I want you to see in me, but the first thing I look for in you”

Brené Brown

A safe, confidential and judgement-free online circle for those who haven’t always felt at home in traditional men’s spaces. Join us on Zoom for 90 minutes on the last Tuesday of every month.

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What

What the club is

For generations, men have been conditioned to chase success, conform to outdated ideas about what it means to “be a man”, and hide the parts of themselves that might be judged or rejected.

For many of us GBT+ men and non-binary people, vulnerability was once used against us — so we hardened. We built armour, concealed how we really felt, and looked for validation through achievement, image and success.

At The Vulnerability Club®, we do something different.

We come back to the vulnerability we buried. We re-learn it. We reclaim it.

The club is a growing community for GBT+ men and non-binary people who want to explore life’s challenges, share openly and support one another.

On the last Tuesday of every month, we hold a facilitated 90-minute sharing circle on Zoom.

Who

Who it is for

The Vulnerability Club® is created for GBT+ men and non-binary people — including anyone attending a sharing circle for the very first time.

You might feel at home here if you are:

Tired of surface-level chit-chat, craving deeper conversation
Done with the overwhelm
Fed up with masking how you feel, or muting parts of yourself to fit in
Ready for personal growth and genuine connection
Wanting something different to the other men’s groups out there
Seeking a community where you can show up as your whole self

If any of this sounds like you, we would love to welcome you.

Why

Why people join

Tribe
No one should have to walk through life alone. We are creating a community of like-minded people who support one another.
Safe and confidential
What is shared in the circle stays in the circle. And there is never any pressure to speak. Silence is welcome too.
Genuine connection
Move beyond surface-level conversation and explore the things that really matter alongside people who are willing to listen — not judge, fix or advise.
A different kind of men’s space
We know traditional “alpha-male” or “drill-sergeant” approaches aren’t for everyone. This is an inclusive, relaxed and welcoming alternative, built so you can show up as you are.
Vulnerability without pressure
You don’t need the right words, a certain look or any previous experience of this work. There is no pressure to share more than feels right for you.

Hear from the men who said yes

Words from people who have sat in the circle.

I didn’t have many gay male friends before I found this group, and honestly, having a space where I don’t have to explain myself every couple of weeks has been a game-changer. I’ve ended up learning so much about myself just by hearing other guys’ stories. If the idea of joining feels a bit daunting, I totally get it — I felt the same. But the best part is that there’s zero pressure to perform. You can keep your mic off, just listen, and find your feet at your own pace. It’s a genuinely chill group of guys where you can just ‘be’ without any expectations.

Ciaran

I really enjoy the easy and informal nature of the group, and especially that it has been created exclusively for GBT men. This allows us all to feel more comfortable being able to share any experience and have a common thread. Having joined the group from inception, it’s been a great space to gain some different perspectives and be able to open up without feeling any pressure or being judged for being gay. It’s actually really refreshing and I always feel lighter. If you’re considering joining, I would highly recommend it. There’s no pressure to share, but honestly, everyone in the group is so relaxed, friendly and easy going that you’ll naturally want to.

Brendon

I’ve enjoyed the diversity in the group, and feeling free to share my experiences as a gay man without feeling judged or having to edit myself. If someone is thinking about joining I’d say to them that this is a free safe space to express yourself, and where we all hold the space for each other and talk about things that we may not have the space to talk about in our own lives. Even just listening to others is a learning experience.

Alex

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Next connection circle

A seat is waiting.

The last Tuesday of every month we host a 90-minute online sharing circle on Zoom, facilitated by Max. First-timers are very welcome.

Tuesday 29 September 2026 · 7:30–9:00pm UK · Zoom

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If this sounds like your people

Spaces are limited so don’t miss out on booking your place at our next circle! Or, if you have any questions, please do get in touch.

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FAQ

Questions people ask

What is The Vulnerability Club®?

The Vulnerability Club® is a monthly online connection circle for GBT+ men and non-binary people — a confidential, judgement-free sharing space.

Who is the Club for?

GBT+ men and non-binary people, aged 18 and over. First-timers are very welcome. If you want honest conversation and to be part of a tribe of like-minded people, you are in the right place.

When does the circle meet?

We meet on the last Tuesday of every month for 90 minutes on Zoom, at 7:30–9:00pm UK time. All circles are facilitated by men’s self-leadership coach Max Wilson.

How do I join?

Use the booking link here. You’ll receive a Zoom link to join on the day — save it in your calendar. If you’d like to join a few minutes early to chat and settle any nerves, please do.

Can I also work with Max one-to-one?

Yes — absolutely. You can find out more about Max’s 1:1 coaching work over at the sister site Max Wilson Coaching.

Is it free to join?

Yes 100%!